Thursday, July 12, 2012

The Last of our Firsts

This is a blog about the “The Last of our Firsts – Our 1 Year mark in the land of the unexpected”
It is hard to believe we have been here exactly 1 year (we landed on PNG soil July 11th 2011).

 We have done all of our birthdays, anniversaries, holidays and all the community events for the first time now.  Here is a list of some of the firsts over the last year in PNG:
-          The 4th of July celebrated here for the Americans.  And using brilo steel wool for the fireworks, very pretty and soooo quiet!!!!
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-          We have done the first day of school at the new school
-          The first time playing softball, volleyball, and basketball in PNG
Kiery with friends for Sports Day
-          Sports Day for both campuses
-          Encounter for Meliah and Chad (like a youth retreat)
A skit that was done at Encounter that Chad was apart of (Meliah was very embarrassed)
-          First time flying in a Cessna 206 little airplane (still not one of my favorite things)


-          Have done the parent/teacher conference with each of the girls and realized that they had adjusted well and there were some areas that still needed tweeking.

o   But most of all really realizing what fabulous education they are receiving here in a 3rd world country.  And how it is shaping their future and how it has broadened their horizons. 
-          Did the first Thanksgiving PNG style- but yet still had 2 of them in a period of 2 days
o   Having multiple Thanksgiving dinners doesn’t change when you move clear across the world. 
-          Did the first Christmas Eve service here which was memorable and very family orientated.
-          Did the first of band/choir concerts, wow there is some amazing talent that is represented here! 
-          Did the POC thing- yeah you know we went, we survived and we have checked that off the list
o   Although Chad still drools about wanting to do the LOOOOONNNNGGG POC so he can spend 5 weeks in the village (he packed in enough adventure in 5 days for 5 weeks, if we had done the long course, there would have been a medivac and it would have had Chad’s name all over it J
-          We have done the first school breaks and realized that this place does get empty when school isn’t in session. 
.     The Community play was Cinderalla by Rodgers and Hammerstein
-          The High School play completed
o   I don’t know if it counts about the High School play because we didn’t see it live because we were @ POC
-          We have done the traveling around on the roads within country-that is an experience in itself. 
-          We have been to all the major “cities” within a 5 hr drive from here. 
o   Ok all but 1, Mt Hagen, and not planning on going there any time soon. 
-          We have done the 8th grade play. 
-          The skate nights as fundraisers for the 10th grade class. 
o   Yes we are in a 3rd world country but there are roller skates AND roller blades on center.
-          We have checked off the list the coffee shop (aka date night).
-          The game night (another date night)
-          The junior and senior class dinners- again fundraisers and date night opportunity.
-          We have experienced “Carnival”. 
o   Which is done in October and it is a fundraiser for a local charity of some sort. 
-          We have done the first of “your daughter has been bucked off the horse! Can you come pick her up quickly.”
o   Yes that was Anna and no broken bones we are aware of.  And the next week right back on the horse. 
-          We have done the first dental appointment here
o   The dentist commented your family does not keep dentist in business.
o   No cavities and very little scraping required.
o   My remark back was yeah but we keep the orthodontist on the very high income level.
-          Some of the families first snorkeling experience in Madang at POC and while we had a holiday there.
-          The first slip n’ slide birthday ever to happen for Kiery and Anna since their birthdays are during the northern hemisphere winter, and of course it was PNG style
o   a blue tarp and dish soap.
-          Chad speaking for the first time at church on a Sunday morning has been completed. 
-          Chad being the temporary manager for CTS for 8 months. 
-          Chad getting to go paragliding with some buddies from here
o   Ruth is strongly discouraging that to happen again. 
-          Chad has been able to go on some amazing bike rides in this country. 
-          Chad being able to go spend a couple days in a village of a national friend
o   they have only seen three other white man in the village before so it was a true honor. 
-          Chad going to a Bible dedication
o   reinforces why we do the support work we do, so the translators can do their jobs.  
-          The life of where we aren’t as busy as we tend to be in the States that we can say WOW that was a God thing when this or that happened or not happened. 
-          The time to be able to connect with a friend while on a walk and you end up being gone the whole afternoon because another friend joined the walk and then we ended up on her porch for tea.
-          The class that does so much together and welcomes the “new” kids very warmly and remembers that they may be the “new” kid next time.








-          The first of Chad being able to mentor and have bible study with some former raskols in a near-by village.
o   And how God has used that which started with just couple white skins doing it, to now 6 whites skins go each Sunday and Chad can see that this could spread to other nationals or villages
-          The first  "mom, can I go and blow fire?"
o   Yes dear but where?
o   And yes that was me agreeing to that and it was done out in our yard.
o   It was done with cornstartch. A life of a MK :)
-          The fun of water slide that was made out of conveyer belt thick plastic and it is on a hill. 
o   Ok, Ruth has not gone down it, she wants to stay in the up-right position as long as she can with this back of hers.
-          The first chopping down bananas and pineapple out of our own garden
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The first of going to market and seeing all this produce and these people speaking a language that you can somewhat understand but still doesn’t make sense to say it out loud.
-          The first Banquet and Encore for the Juniors Seniors
o   Meliah can’t wait till next year when it will be her first to participate in them.
-          The first graduation of the seniors and of 6th grade class
o   Go Anna!
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The first of Anna’s class and Kiery’s class leading chapel a couple different times during the school year. 
-          Dealing with the postal service in this country…. hmmm….
o   We love when we get mail but if it gets lost somewhere in postal land we try not to fret too much and maybe someday it will find us.
o   Yes, mom I am talking about my b-day card that is almost a yr late lost somewhere….
-          The earthquakes have been an experience, when we have had a couple 7 + on the rector scale  and that would of caused wide spread damage in many parts of the world and in the States. Where here, yes a few water tanks broke or got leaks and some pipes broke and some roads got bigger pot holes or more land slides. But it was something to talk about and go wow that was a real shaker!!! 
-          Oh can’t forget the first time of running out of water in the big tank outside.
o   Yeah that was fun having only RAM water for house things.
o   The RAM water is unfiltered, untreated. Everyone within the whole island can use the water for bathing, clothes washing and for all sorts of other things… 
o   Yes we filtered our water very well and added bleach as needed. 
o   By the way we still filter our water well because we don’t know what things can live in a metal tank.  Yeah we just won't go there. 
-          We have gone through the time of year where people call June the cry month because so many leave on furlough or to go finish and now we are experiencing July where people come back from furlough and we feel like the new people all over again because we don’t know this person or that family etc etc.
-          This last week we dealt with the K92 bridge pretty much going out
o   this is the only really passable road- if that is what you call it.
o   To get anywhere out of Ukarumpa you need to go over this bridge.
o   People are working very hard to “fix” it, which they have done before. 
o   But there is a brand new bridge waiting to be installed in K92 but since it has taken so long for the new one to come the land has eroded away and so now the bridge isn’t wide enough for the spot. So we have to wait for them to build up the ground to make it even with the new bridge.  Don’t hold your breath!!!  It MIGHT be in place before we leave after Meliah’s graduation June 2014. 
Other support workers from on center spent 4 days or so fixing and reparing the bridge.  It is again passable.
-          We have been through the trying to get car parts in this country fiasco that only took 5 months and the part came from S. Africa. 
-          The first of having a family member play an instrument in beginning band J 
o   By the end of the school yr we were all enjoying hearing her practice but remembering the days not so long ago that we were saying and why did she pick the trumpet???
-          Remembering the first of going to the grocery store and looking at Kilos (pounds)and Kina(money) and trying to figure out how to stock a kitchen that you haven’t even seen yet
o   yes Ruth burst out in tears… 
-          The times of being very thankful for the community/neighbors you have because at least on this side of the world that is the only family you have.
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-                  We have seen when a family has to leave very unexpectedly to go back to their home country and see how the community rallies around them.
o   Or when someone is medivaced to Australia and some of the family is left behind how the community really works to help in any way they can.
-          We have experienced living very close to the Equator and finding out how severe a sun burn can get hmmm…
o   Sun kukim pes, Meliah. Tok Pisin fir sunburn on your face.
o   She does wear sun screen at least for sports tournaments now.
-          The scary part of being a parent when your daughter is in Ukarumpa and you are in Madang and you get a call from the hostel mom that she is in the clinic and they are trying to figure out what to do for Meliah because she can’t seem to get enough air into her lungs.
o   Ok everyone it ended up being something “minorish” she had pulled a muscle in her chest area and so it made it really hard for her to enogh  air into the lungs.
o   So nothing to do with asthma just horsing around and pulled a muscle-something that can only happen in PNG.
o   Oh wait that is for another blog entry- only in PNG….
-          The realization that living with so many hills does have its benefits when your car won’t start and you need to roll starts it.
o   Another good reason to like stick shifts.
-          The first to really enjoy being in the classroom and either working with a group of kids that need some re-teaching or doing some of the paper work that goes along with keeping a classroom running.  Also trying to explain to the national kids, what a season is?  Or what a mall is?  Or what a restaurant is?
o   And seeing the eyes of those PNG kids that really get the concepts and they are showing leadership qualities and wondering to yourself this kid may lead this community or village or province somewhere someday.
o   I wonder what God has up His mighty sleeve. 
Knowing that God is everywhere ALL the time and taking care of all the Worlds stuff!!!  He’s got the controls…

And then of course that means we have also had the first of the honeymoon stage is over-what in the heck did we get ourselves into coming to PNG.  All the holidays being the first of being away from what we consider our “normal”.  The first of each girl coming to one of us, crying saying they miss this or that or this person back home.  Or hearing from a friend and saying, “can you believe that has happened while we have been gone?”  Or the friend or family crisis happens and you are not there to support or help in the situation.  That has to be the toughest and the most “OK God you are in control” type moments. 
There is nothing I can do but pray and maybe lend a “listening” ear through Email or facebook. The rewards of serving on the “mission” field in this day and time because of the great technology that is at our finger tips.  The missionaries of even 10 to 15 yrs ago didn’t have the technology and the way to stay connected to their loved ones and experience their lives through a blog or facebook statement or an email update that is instantly in their inbox.
Thank you for everyone back “home” for their love and support and prayers as we have experienced the FIRST of our new life here in PNG. 

1 comment:

  1. What a great re-cap! Don't forget the first of Chad climbing a tree for coconuts! =)

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